1. 首先，需要使用EnumMember属性为枚举成员提供别名。例如：

public enum MyEnum
{
   [EnumMember(Value = "first-value")]
   FirstValue = 1,
   [EnumMember(Value = "second-value")]
   SecondValue = 2,
   [EnumMember(Value = "third-value")]
   ThirdValue = 3
}

2. 然后，创建一个自定义模型绑定器，该绑定器在反序列化查询字符串值时使用EnumMember值。例如：

public class EnumWithEnumMemberBinder : IModelBinder
{
   private readonly IModelBinder _fallbackBinder;

   public EnumWithEnumMemberBinder(IModelBinder fallbackBinder)
   {
       _fallbackBinder = fallbackBinder;
   }

   public Task BindModelAsync(ModelBindingContext bindingContext)
   {
       var valueProviderResult = bindingContext.ValueProvider.GetValue(bindingContext.ModelName);
       var stringValue = valueProviderResult.FirstValue;

       var enumType = bindingContext.ModelType;

       if (stringValue is null || !enumType.IsEnum)
       {
           return _fallbackBinder.BindModelAsync(bindingContext);
       }

       foreach (var field in enumType.GetFields(BindingFlags.Public | BindingFlags.Static))
       {
           var memberAttribute = field.GetCustomAttribute();

           if (memberAttribute != null && memberAttribute.Value == stringValue)
           {
               bindingContext.Result = ModelBindingResult.Success(Enum.Parse(enumType, field.Name));
               return Task.CompletedTask;
           }
           else if (field.Name == stringValue)
           {
               bindingContext.Result = ModelBindingResult.Success(field.GetValue(null));
               return Task.CompletedTask;
           }
       }

       return _fallbackBinder.BindModelAsync(bindingContext);
   }
}

3. 最后，在控制器上使用模型绑定器特性，并为枚举类型指定创建的自定义模型绑定器。例如：

public IActionResult MyAction([FromQuery(BinderType = typeof(EnumWithEnumMemberBinder))] MyEnum myEnum)
{
   // 处理枚举值